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### 🌟 Positive Reinforcement & Motivation

Every child needs to feel noticed and celebrated — not just when they mess up, but especially when they’re doing well. Positive reinforcement helps children feel encouraged to keep making good choices.

This strategy is about catching children being good, praising their efforts, and building motivation in ways that feel fair and meaningful.

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### 💡 Tools for Positive Reinforcement:

**1. Specific Praise**  
Say exactly what they did well. Instead of "Good job," try: “I noticed how you waited your turn. That was respectful.”

**2. Sticker Charts or Token Boards**  
Let children earn a sticker or token for specific behaviors. Trade them in for a reward or privilege.

**3. Goal Setting**  
Set small goals like “Raise your hand 3 times today” and celebrate when met.

**4. High Fives and Positive Gestures**  
A thumbs up, smile, or secret handshake builds connection quickly.

**5. Class or Family Rewards**  
Work toward a shared goal (extra recess, family movie night) to encourage teamwork.

**6. Surprise Notes or Celebrations**  
Leave a kind note in a desk or celebrate quiet acts of kindness out loud.

**7. Visual Progress Trackers**  
Track growth with simple visuals (like a ladder, tree, or rocket) to show progress.

**8. “Caught You Being Awesome” Cards**  
Recognize kind or responsible behavior right when it happens.

**9. Mystery Motivators**  
Let kids earn a mystery reward after consistent effort — builds excitement and keeps it fun.

**10. Celebrate Effort, Not Just Success**  
Praise trying hard, even when something’s not perfect. “You really stuck with that — I’m proud of your effort.”

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> “When a child feels seen for doing well, they’re more likely to keep trying.”

**Need help creating a reward system that works for your child or class?**  
Call or text Laurie at **580–302–0136**. We can create one that’s simple, respectful, and fun.