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Behavior Replacement & Redirection

Redirection is a respectful way to guide children from unwanted behavior toward a better choice. It’s not about punishment — it’s about showing them what to do **instead** of what not to do.

Children often need help learning replacement behaviors. Redirection works best when it’s calm, clear, and done in the moment.

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### 🛠️ Redirection Tools:

**1. Teach the “Instead” Skill**  
If a child is yelling, teach them to use a calm voice. If they grab, teach how to ask.

**2. Offer Two Positive Choices**  
“Do you want to write with a pencil or marker?” Not “Do you want to work or not?”

**3. Use Visual Cues**  
Point to a picture schedule, behavior chart, or calming tool to redirect without words.

**4. Change the Environment**  
Move to a quieter space, adjust lighting, or provide a fidget to support success.

**5. Planned Ignoring (for Minor Behaviors)**  
Ignore attention-seeking behaviors while reinforcing positive ones.

**6. Break It Down**  
If a task is too hard, break it into small steps to reduce frustration.

**7. Redirect with Humor**  
Use gentle playfulness to shift the mood (e.g., “Uh-oh, are those silly wiggles I see?”)

**8. Provide a Help Cue**  
Offer help instead of correcting. “Can I show you another way to try that?”

**9. Give a Job or Responsibility**  
Redirect off-task behavior by assigning a helpful role (pass out papers, hold the door).

**10. Use Clear, Calm Language**  
“Let’s try that again with kind hands.” Not “Don’t do that!”

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> “Redirection is teaching in the moment — with kindness, patience, and clarity.”

**Need help choosing redirection strategies that work for your setting?**  
Call or text Laurie at **580–302–0136**. I’ll help you build a plan that fits your child or classroom.